Trading Psychology - 3 Big Aggravations You Shouldn’t Tolerate
More than likely, you have 3 HUGE aggravations in your trading if you’re like most traders - and you should NOT tolerate these because they really are completely unnecessary.
The first (and in some ways, the most irritating) is knowing that there are people making it in trading, and they aren’t half as smart as you.
- They haven’t put in nearly as much effort as you.
- Haven’t sacrificed as many evenings or weekends that could have been spent more enjoyably.
- Haven’t tried nearly as many systems or strategies as you have.
- And yet, they’re making money, relaxing when its time and feeling pretty good, while you’re still beating your head on the rock and bleeding, and not getting nearly as much good sleep as you’d like.
The second is knowing that there are plenty of trading strategies and systems that are readily available to you, but you don’t know how to find them, and even if you did, you don’t have a process to know if it is one that would suit you well and actually produce the way you wanted
Well you could find out by just going ahead and trying it, but that kind of stinks too, huh?
And it doesn’t help that it seems like every Tom, Dick and Harry has a system for sale, with everybody and their brother sending you emails promoting it.
Same problem: “Does it really work, and even if it does, would it work for ME?”
No method to KNOW without trying it.
And if you say “No” then you’re left toiling over whether you missed that “one system” that will fix all your problems just like they claim.
More aggravation. More stress.
The third aggravation is probably the worst, because this one is simply being stuck in the same crappy situation of NOT having achieved what you originally got into trading for, and even after all the different things you’ve tried, all the effort you’ve put in, you’re not getting there and you don’t know what to do.
Personally I hate it when I’m stuck and at my wits end as far as what to do.
When I’ve tried everything I can think of and still not getting the results I want.
One thing I’ve learned over the years is that if I find myself unable to resolve a problem on my own and I’ve given it a decent shot, to be smart enough to seek out help and a different approach to the problem.
And it always seems that when I’m finally ready for the teacher, the teacher does indeed appear.
At that point all I have to do is be willing to accept the help that’s being offered.
Cheers
Brian
“The Trading Turnaround Specialist”
P.S. Sometimes I’ll get an email from someone that just has a hard time believing that nearly all their problems can really be resolved so simply, to which I reply,
“You’re fully capable of making it. Trading is NOT beyond you. Just focus on the right things and you’ll find that you’ve conquered considerably more difficult challenges in your life than trading.”
That’s why I’m here. To help you find that short and very realistic path.
Trading Psychology Article - Stressed? Overwhelmed? Nervous? 3 Helpful Things In These Turbulent Times
Filed under: stock trading, trader training, trading psychology
Are you feeling stressed out with all the horrible and forboding news lately?
Are you feeling overwhelmed with all your responsibilities on top of your trading?
Are you nervous about your ability to survive and profit in your trading?
Well then you are NOT alone.
I’ve been getting a lot of emails over the last few days from subscribers that are really on the verge of panic with all that’s going on, both in the financial markets and in the world in general.
It’s quite understandable too.
Some of the events are pretty scary since there’s not really anything an individual person can do anything about, and they’re certainly hard to ignore.
Fortunately, there are a few things you can do,
A few matters which ARE within your control which you can address to make a difference in your world.
1. First, keep things in perspective and use your ability to think strategically and NOT just tactically.
Remember, the markets are people responding to events.
To help restore your confidence if it’s been shaken, watch this video
In turbulent times like these, you’ve got a lot of people that are very fearful and emotional. On top of that, the events that trigger the response patterns are occuring more frequently, plus people (the markets) are a bit over-sensitive compared to ‘normal’ conditions.
This makes for circumstances where things are even more unpredictable than usual.
So how might you approach this predicament?
Apply some strategic thinking.
Take a closer look at your system, particularly at the reasoning that it’s based on, the current climate (high volatility, overly sensitive masses, etc.) and consider if it is really suited to these circumstances.
It may be a solid system during less volatile times, but if you’re going to trade, maybe this system should be put on the shelf for now.
For example, if your system is dependent on a high winning percentage and / or nice ‘trending’ price action, then this might be asking for trouble.
It might make more sense to stay on the sidelines until things settle down if you’re not confident in your system to perform reliably when things are like this.
I know there are a TON of traders that would have been better to be OUT of the markets during 2008 and 2009.
Remember also to NOT antagonize yourself with the wild market moves, focusing on the money being made and “missing out” on it. That causes many traders to trade recklessly and get seriously hurt.
2. To help address feeling overwhelmed, here’s an article I just received this morning that very nicely details a method I’ve used myself for years.
Download the pdf here (no optin required)
On that page you’ll see several different resources, but the pdf is right there for you.
3. If you’re nervous about trading in these turbulent times and not sure what to do with things all crazy again, and you want to be able to trade with some confidence, knowing that you can deal with the changing marketplace and economic climate, then here’s what to do to alleviate your anxiety the right way.
Change is inevitable, whether driven by specific events or just the natural evolution of things, so you absolutely MUST have a solid process to ADAPT.
Randomly making changes is one thing, where you simply ‘try’ one thing or another, hoping that something will work, but that’s not a very wise way to conduct your trading business.
The much smarter way to be is to make changes in a very calculated and business-like manner.
This is the ONLY way to make sure that you keep moving in the right direction without just throwing money at it.
Trading scared or nervous is NOT the way to trade.
This is serious business and challenging enough when things are ‘normal’.
If you’re feeling anxious about trying to trade in times like these, then put yourself in the position to have a very well-founded confidence, the kind of confidence you need to keep your cool and trade smart.
Remember, by having a specific PROCESS which includes adapting in a wise manner counters that anxiety by replacing it with confidence.
Gain the skill-set that gives you that rock-solid confidence
Cheers & Happy Friday!
Brian
P.S. Don’t just sit there thinking that ‘focusing on discipline’ and following your rules will save you in times like these.
Apply your reasoning and take appropriate action to effectively deal with the situation and make it a positive one rather than a repeat of 2008 and ‘09 when so many traders took a viscious beating.
Here’s another video that has been tremendously helpful for hundreds of traders.
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Brian here and you’ve been getting emails from everyone about Norman Hallett’s training program, “The Disciplined Trader”
Very good program and well worth the investment, but it’s missing something
Something that you MUST HAVE if you truly want to put your ‘discipline’ issues behind you for good.
Now don’t get me wrong, Norman’s program does what it is designed to do: attend to the ‘psychological’ aspects of your discipline, yes I do recommend the program - I’ve known Norman for years, and he’s got integrity.
In over 5 years of helping hundreds of traders myself, there it has become very clear that everyone seems to miss a key element to COMFORTABLE discipline that comes naturally.
Without this key element, that’s why the ‘discipline’ part of trading is so tough and requires so much effort…
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So what is this “key element”?
Let’s take a closer look at the situation.
What makes ‘discipline’ so tough in the first place?
What’s going on inside of you in those moments when your ‘discipline’ breaks down?
Fears and doubts.
You’ve got the fear that the markets will turn against you and turn this trade into another loser.
This fear is telling you that you have serious doubts about your system to deliver.
Because your system is what is supposed to give you setups that work in your favor enough of the time to keep you comfortably profitable.
So that’s another fear: your system isn’t up to snuff.
Then you probably also have the fear of not executing the system like you’re supposed to.
Again, this comes down to doubt about your system and your proficiency with it.
So how do you attend to these doubts and fears (yes there are others, but they almost all come back to you and your system)?
By filling in the gap that allows these doubts and fears to exist.
By filling that gap with CONFIDENCE.
And you get that CONFIDENCE in your system and yourself by quickly developing the MASTERY that you know you want but don’t quite have.
That voice in your head that says you think you have a pretty good system, but you have doubts.
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Cheers
Brian
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“Why?”
Permanent versus temporary.
Because you want to attend to your discipline challenges permanently, not temporarily.
In order to permanently fix a problem, you have to truly understand what’s causing it.
If you only treat the symptoms, then the problem is likely to come back again at a later time.
In my experience helping traders over the last 5 years, I’ve found that
‘discipline’ problems are more of a practical matter than a psychological one -
…and almost always related to doubts regarding one’s trading system.
When you have a solid handle on something, when you’ve mastered it, you just don’t have discipline issues.
When the pressure is on, if you DON’T have it truly mastered, that’s when doubts and fears come in and mess with you and create the ‘discipline’ issues.
Well-founded confidence trumps doubt and fear every time.
When you fix your system issues and establish a truly solid confidence in it (by using the correct process of course), that’s when you can make those huge steps forward in your trading.
Now does this fix EVERYTHING?
Only about 95%
There may be a some lingering associations, patterns and conditioned responses from the past, but once the real source of the problem is addressed (again, solid confidence in your system), then these can be put to bed for good.
This is where Norman’s course comes in.
Here’s how to get the complete solution.
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This way your discipline issues will be tackled completely and permanently!
Of course, if you have any questions, just let me know.
Cheers
Brian
Psychology of Trading Stocks - The 5th Source of Self-Sabotage
Filed under: Day Trading Forex Currency, stock trading, trader coaching, trader training, trading psychology
It’s been right under your nose and you didn’t even realize that it has been directly interfering with your ability to trade profitably.
We’re talking about the 5th source of self-sabotage.
Hopefully by now you’ve probably heard me explain how most of the issues that traders encounter are NOT a matter of discipline, but really self-sabotage.
You do NOT consciously have the desire to be reckless with your trading capital, right?
Most say, “It’s my emotions flaring up that mess me up, feelings like fear, greed, hope and despair.”
But where do those feelings come from?
Your subconscious.
So then the question becomes,
Whenever there is something going on that is out of alignment with who you are, your subconscious will correct the situation.
If you are trying to make something happen that is NOT truly right for you, then your subconscious will provide resistance to keep it from happening.
That’s where the 5th source of self-sabotage is coming into play.
Here’s an example that I see all the time with day traders.
Most day traders, deep down, really do NOT want to be spending 8 hours a day staring at the charts.
They want the money of course, but full-time trading is not really what they want to be doing.
What would really suit their ideal life is to be an end-of-day trader.
So their subconscious is resisting success as a daytrader and doing them a huge favor too.
Because one of the worst things that can happen is for you to become successful doing something that you don’t enjoy doing.
The same can be true for your style of trading or if you are trading beyond your skill level (risking more than you should be).
This is the underlying wisdom when you hear to trade with a system that suits you.
Because if something is not right for you, your subconscious will provide resistance.
when you have developed the proper skills and tools to deserve the success,
only then will your subconscious will stop sabotaging your efforts - because there is nothing to correct.
Everything is in alignment, so your subconscious will now allow your success._
This is one of the main reasons that I created the Trading System Mastery Training and included the various support materials - so that you acquire and develop (all in one shot) everything you need to put your subconscious at peace.
When you you’re good at trading, you know you’re good, and you know what made you good, then your subconscious will support you rather than sabotage you.
Start right now to put an end to self-sabotage and other ‘discipline’ issues by acquiring the skill set and process that fixes the cause of the problems.
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Cheers
Brian
P.S. Please don’t let foreseeable mistakes happen. Start your trading turnaround right now and take these first steps to enjoying the success you know you should be as a trader.
P.P.S. What are the first 4 sources of self-sabotage? You find out about them in the video that is one of the bonuses with the training program. Don’t just sit there!
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